Be a loser and get away with it?

I watched Sideways last night. What a movie? I wonder why was it nominated to the Academy Awards at all. Those who have seen the movie know what it is like and those who have not, well, what should I say? it is a movie that every man should watch and feel good about the fact that you can be a loser, cheat on your fiance and still get away with everything and only break your nose. I wish life was as easy as that.